videos online?”
Actually, children’s natural curiosity and interest in sexuality are quite normal. As a child’s primary educators, parents should seize these opportunities to engage in honest, age-appropriate conversations with their children. Providing thoughtful guidance helps ensure that children learn about sex through reliable, constructive channels. This approach is crucial for the healthy development of their sexual knowledge and psychology.
In the recent parental sex education seminar, parents gained valuable insights on how to approach this important topic with their children. They learned strategies for educating youngsters about the fundamentals of life and relationships, as well as effective methods for preventing child sexual abuse. Importantly, the seminar also equipped parents with the knowledge to provide age-appropriate sex education while maintaining clear, healthy boundaries.
This semester, our school’s Parent Education program, in collaboration with the “Heart Haven” Psychological Counselling Centre, once again invited Ms. Chen Jing to deliver a lecture on sex education psychology for parents. The goal of this session was to equip parents with the knowledge and strategies to better guide their children in navigating sensitive online content and preventing sexual abuse.
Ms. Chen Jing, the presenter for the parent education lecture, is highly qualified in the field of sex education. She is the founder of the “Meet and Teach Love” sex education initiative, and also serves as an expert advisor for the United Nations’ Sexual and Reproductive Health programme. Furthermore, Ms. Chen has been certified as a trainer by the renowned U.S. sex education expert Debra W. Haffner, author of the acclaimed book “From Diapers to Dating.”
Five Steps for Staying Away from Inappropriate Material
We are now in the internet age: How can parents guide their children to stay away from inappropriate material online?
Ms. Chen first uses a game to help parents distinguish what constitutes inappropriate material.
Following that, she will guide parents to understand the eight major types of inappropriate material that can cause harm to minors from the perspective of brain science.
and then helps parents learn how to guide their children.
“Five steps for staying away from inappropriate material”
Identifying Common Tactics used by Online Sexual Predators and How to Respond to Them
At the same time, parents should take proactive steps to strengthen their oversight of their children’s online activities. This includes installing filtering software on the family computer to prevent children from passively encountering inappropriate materials. Parents should also recommend safe and educational websites for their children to use. Additionally, regularly checking the browser history can help parents stay informed about their child’s internet usage. By implementing these measures, parents can help ensure their children are growing up in a safer and healthier online environment.
Ms. Chen’s humorous and engaging lecture had the audience in stitches. Her rich and detailed case studies provided parents with many insights. Even after the lecture ended, parents were still eager for more, surrounding Ms. Chen to ask for advice on their various concerns about sex education for their children.
Through this parent school sex education lecture, parents not only learned many practical sex edu-cation facts but also gained methods and techniques for communicating with their children.
Xiang Xianxian’s mom, Class 1C
“I gained a lot from today’s lecture. The teacher’s talk was easy to understand and very practical, making me feel more confident about sex education for my children. We have two boys at home, one four years old and one in sixth grade. It’s crucial to start sex education early, so I’ll take action as soon as I get home!”
Ge Yiming’s mom, Class 1D
“Every time I listen to Ms. Chen Jing’s sex education lectures, I am always refreshed by her humorous and engaging delivery. With her extensive knowledge and vivid explanations, Ms. Chen clarifies the concepts that we often find confusing in our daily lives. She not only deepens our understanding of sex education but also provides many practical techniques, making us more confident and logical when discussing this sensitive topic with our children.
As parents, we deeply recognise the importance of sex education. Ms. Chen’s lectures have made us realize that sex education should be a focus from an early age and must be approached in a correct and scientific manner. This not only helps children develop healthy sexual attitudes but also teaches them to respect themselves and others, enhancing their self-protection awareness as they grow.
Ms. Chen Jing’s sex education lectures have paved the way for us parents and have safeguar-ded our children’s futures. We are grateful to have such an outstanding educator, guiding us so that we are no longer lost on the journey of sex education.”
As the mother of two sons, I find the current environment to be far more perilous compared to my own upbringing. The internet is rife with hidden dangers, and both boys and girls can potentially be targeted. After attending Ms. Chen Jing’s lecture, I have come to deeply appreciate the importance of protecting our children’s innocent minds and preventing their premature exposure to inappropriate online content. It is clear that sex education should begin at an early age, establishing the correct awareness for my sons of online safety and appropriate concepts regarding interactions with the opposite sex.
Xia Meixi’s mom, Class 4C
In the internet age, sex education has evolved beyond just imparting physiological knowledge – it is now a critical form of life education. In this era of information abundance, teenagers can easily encounter various inappropriate materials online, which can have detrimental effects on their mental health and behaviour. Therefore, it is essential that sex education begins at an early age, helping children establish correct sexual concepts, values, and foster healthy attitudes and behaviours.
First and foremost, it is crucial to teach children how to identify inappropriate content and understand its harmful impact. Secondly, children should learn effective strategies to avoid and distance themselves from such information. Finally, they need to know how to protect their personal information, refrain from sharing inappropriate content, avoid contacting strangers, and never meet online acquaintances alone. Importantly, children should also be encouraged to promptly inform trusted parents or teachers if they encounter any issues.
In summary, comprehensive sex education is a long-term, systematic effort that requires the collaborative efforts of families, schools, and society. Only through this collective approach can we nurture a healthy, confident, and responsible next generation.
Attending Ms. Chen Jing’s sex education lecture for the second time, I went from feeling uneasy and anxious about the topic to being deeply captivated by her humorous yet scientific approach. This experience made me realize that, as the mother of a fourth grader, if we are unable to openly discuss sex education with our children, they will not be able to correctly identify and handle related issues as they grow.
Both of Ms. Chen’s lectures have been immensely beneficial for me. After each sex education session at school, I was able to overcome the initial awkwardness and felt “desensitized” to the topic. At home, I had productive conversations with my child about how to identify ‘sexual dangers’ in the online world and how to approach sensitive topics during their growth. To my surprise, my child was already able to discuss these matters confidently and eloquently, reminding me not to miss the crucial window for these important discussions.
I highly recommend this lecture series, and I look forward to having the opportunity to attend again in the future.
Warm Reminder
When you get home, quickly check the websites your child has visited. Have an open and scientific conversation about sex with your child. Advise them, “If an online friend talks to you about private parts or asks to see your private parts, firmly say no! If an online friend asks to meet you in person, you must tell mom and dad!” We hope that every child can protect themselves in the online world and stay safe from harm.
Additionally, our school’s Parent School, in collaboration with the “Heart Haven” Psychological Counselling Centre, will regularly offer psychology-focused lectures for parents. Please scan the QR code below and provide your input on the topics you would find most beneficial. We will consider everyone’s suggestions to ensure the lectures are tailored to your needs.
Let us support our children’s healthy and happy growth, hand-in-hand!