当孩子迈入新的学校，升入新的年级，加入新的班级时，
您是不是担心孩子能否适应新学校的生活？
孩子的学习状态怎么样？
作为家长该怎样调节心态，帮助孩子更好地适应新学校的生活节奏？
When a child enters a new school, a new grade, or a new class,
are you worried about whether your child can adapt to life at a new school?
How is the state-of-learning of your child?
As a parent,
how can you improve your mentality to help children better adapt to the pace of life in a new school?
陈默 老师
Ms. Chen Mo
儿童青少年心理咨询专家
华东师大心理健康教育与咨询中心特约咨询师
著有《家有幼儿》、《家有小学生》、《家有中学生》等书籍
Child and adolescent psychologist
Special Counselor of the Mental Health Education and Counseling Center of East China Normal University
Author of books such as “Kids at Home”, “Primary Students at Home”, and “Secondary School Students at Home”
9月24 日，我校邀请到了儿童青少年心理咨询专家，华东师大心理健康教育与咨询中心特约咨询师——陈默老师，和家长共同探讨从心理的角度如何育儿，为孩子提供成长的能量。
On September 24, 2020, our school invited Ms. Chen Mo, an expert in psychological counseling for children and adolescents, and a special consultant from the mental health education and counseling center of East China Normal University, to discuss with parents how to raise children from a psychological perspective and provide fuel for their children’s growth.
讲座一开始，陈默老师就以开放、温暖的态度就带动了全场，以风趣幽默的语言列举了许多家庭中的亲子现象，以丰富的肢体语言还原了一个个教育场景，深入浅出地解析了孩子的心理特点和需求。她就学生的情绪和家长的处理方法发表了独到见解，引发家长的共鸣，解开了家长心中的困惑。讲座中，家长朋友们时而记录、时而拍照、时而点头表示认同……
Ms. Chen opened her lecture in a spirit of warmth and welcome. She enumerated many parent-child phenomena in humorous language, enacting each education scene with dynamic body language, and analyzed the psychological characteristics and needs of children in a very concise manner. She expressed her own unique opinions on the students’ emotions and parents’ treatment methods, which resonated strongly among parents and alleviated worry in the hearts of parents.
讲座的最后，陈默老师将话筒留给了现场的家长，让家长们分享日常生活中育儿方面的问题，有针对性地给予睿智而专业的回答。
At the end of the lecture, Ms. Chen gave an on-the-spot opportunity to parents to share their problems in educating their children in their daily life, and gave wise and professional answers, which helped many parents.
很多家长表示，通过此次讲座认识到父母的心态、亲子关系对孩子的心理成长影响重大，父母作为孩子的第一任老师，只有调整好自己的心态、明确自己的角色功能、不断自我成长，才能持续为孩子保驾护航，使孩子获得更多的能量，遇见更好的自己！
Many parents said that through the lecture, they realized that parents’ mentality and parent-child relationship had a great impact on their children’s psychological growth. As the primary caregivers, parents should adjust their own mentality, clarify their role and function, and constantly grow themselves, so that they can continue to protect their children and enable them to acquire more energy and improve!